5 intimate sex positions to try over the holidays

by | Dec 11, 2020 | Sex and PrEP

Let’s be real – you’re probably going to be super bored this holiday season since we are still in the middle of a global pandemic. So, what better time than now to experiment with sex and heat it up than when it’s cold AF and ready for some “holiday cheer”?!

Before we continue, first and foremost, it’s super important to know what you and your partner both enjoy sexually and what you both are comfortable with. For instance, one of the most popular and most common positions is the standard “missionary,” where one partner is on top and the woman underneath. However, this can be one of the least-pleasurable positions for many women. Interesting, huh?

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By contrast, the woman on top often experiences more pleasure because more parts of her genitalia are being stimulated – which we are all aboutttttt! And doing butt stuff can be super-hot, too. Did you know that anal sex for women can be just as pleasurable, if not more so, than vaginal sex because of these things nicknamed the “legs of the clitoris?”

Our point here is that everybody’s different; the only way to know which positions you and your partner like is to ask, experiment, and see what happens. If it’s really working for a woman, you’ll know by the wetness, moans, and that constant booty grinding. 😉

Here are some of our favorite intimate and sexy positions you should try with your partner over the holidays. It’s time to ditch the missionary and try one of these!

1. The Corkscrew

This is where your partner straddles you and enters you from behind. This is truly a sexy mood when you’re both realllly into it because you can thrust to the penetrative tempo to enhance both partner’s sexual pleasure! Sexy, right?!

2. Sensual shower or bath play

We stan a hot shower for sexy time. There truly isn’t anything sexier than shower sex! Wrap your arms and legs around your partner, stick it in, and let the water be your natural lube! Bring your fantasies to life with the ultimate intimacy with some silicone lube and a waterproof toy! Watch your connection become hot and heavy!

3. Tasty foods

Okay, this one really isn’t a position, but it’s something we want to make sure you include to make you and your hunny hungry for one another! 😉 Incorporating sensual edibles into your sexy time will make you even hungrier for your partner! 😉 Try licking some honey off your hunny or smothering them in chocolate to indulge in a tasty treat. Something as simple as that can go a long way in your foreplay and overall orgasm.


4. Get Cuffed Up

Okay, but like, handcuffs are literally one of the sexiest things you and your partner can play around with in the bedroom. Try cuffing up your partner – if they are comfortable and into it – to your headboard, get on top, and start going at it. This might resemble missionary, because it basically is, but the handcuffs are what make this position that much more exciting! There are plenty of handcuffs made from metal, silicone, latex, or leather that can add some much-needed excitement to your sexual interlude.

5. Cowgirl

Are you naughty or nice? This position will allow you to kneel on top of your partner while pushing off their chest. This position will make you feel strong and sexy as you take control to intensify your orgasm. And hey – it can also be done in reverse by facing your partner’s feet.

We hope these new positions help you and your partner explore each other’s sexual needs and fantasies this holiday season while cooped up inside. Don’t be shy – now is the perfect time to spread some holiday cheer to your boo by sharing your most intimate sexual desires. Bottom line is that this is the perfect time to take romance into your own hands! Let us know which ones you tried or if you have any recommendations we should add to our list! Happy holidays you horn dogs!

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